I have a player who is class of 2022 and has gone to some ID camps this summer at different colleges. I do not know how this works and don't know who to ask so please somebody help! At one of the schools the coach acts like he is interested in her; told her she was the best player out there at the camp and asked for her contact info. He then saw her at another ID camp at a different school the next weekend. He asked her to text him and she did and then in the text he asked her to call him and she did. He has not met me or talked to me or her coach; only her; and she's 16. I was in the room when she was talking to him on the phone and it sounded like he was asking her questions one would be asked at a job interview so I get that he is trying to get to know her. But it seems like a job interview that is lasting for days and days with no end in sight. Of course she's super excited but I'm afraid of what will happen if he does not ask her to commit. Right now it seems like he's deciding what he wants to do. Now he wants her to come back to another ID camp so he can see her again. This involves her flying and $$ for plane fare and $$ for the ID camp again, probably all a total of at least $800. One of my questions is when do they pay. for her to come; he had mentioned official and unofficial visits to her but apparently she is still doing the unofficial visits. When do the official visits, where the college pays her way, start? And shouldn't he be talking to her parents and/or her coach instead of just her? Thanks to anyone for any advice or insight!